You might be tempted to say “no thanks” when you think there’s no chance of a future with a particular guy. Instead consider going out on all the dates you can. After you cast a wide net, take a look at the bounty. You may be pleasantly surprised by your catch. One benefit of accepting all the dates you can is that you won’t prematurely rule out a man who’s right for you. You haven’t committed to kiss him, to go on a second date, or to do anything else. You body language is open.

Whatever your prior experience with a certain man, you’ll be able to make a more informed judgment about him after you’ve spent an evening together. Remember that just because you agree to go out on a date with a guy doesn’t mean you agree to anything more than spending some time with him. You haven’t committed to kiss him, to go on a second date, or to do anything else. There are no strings attached to what he gives you, so don’t attach any yourself or act as if there are.

Paying for the date is his wager that he can win your affection, and you are being fair simply by giving him that opportunity. There are no strings attached to what he gives you, so don’t attach any yourself or act as if there are. Most important, accepting dates liberally helps you get into a groove. Being in the groove is the manifestation of that old expression “when it rains, it pours.” When you are being wooed by a man, it awakens your feminine energy and confidence.

Knowing that a man is enamored of you reminds you that you’re attractive and desirable. As a result you walk taller and smile brighter. You body language is open. That why just knowing some man somewhere is interested in you will make you more attractive to all the other men you encounter. Thus, accepting a date from a man — any man — can help you attract other offers. You’ve probably had prior experience with this groove. Instead consider going out on all the dates you can.